Can a Dom sense a submissive woman? Is there a way to know if a man is dominant before getting intimate?
YES, without a doubt. A Dom can sense a submissive woman.
How to know if a man is dominant? Usually and of course there are exceptions to the rule. You can tell from his domineer. An Alpha male will want to take control. It’s in his nature Some of the characteristic of the dominant male are persistence, tenacity, determination and steadfastness. These are expressed not only sexually but in his everyday life. He does not ask, he tells you what he wants. You however must be able to distinguish between dominance and just plan domineering or bossy (there are NOT the same)
Is dominance something that can be taught? I desparately need my husband to rule me. It's all I crave and dream of but he's more on the submissive side himself. :( is there hope?
If a guy isn’t naturally dominant there is no way you are going to be able to convert him. I am not saying he has to be a complete alpha male, but, if he isn’t naturally a little dominant, sexually, you are not going to be change him completely. However all hope is not lost
However, there is an expression in the BDSM world called “topping from the bottom”, It basically means the experienced submissive subtly leads sexual encounters with an inexperienced dominant. The dominant can be inexperienced but he still has to be somewhat naturally dominant.
The bottom line is that you can’t make someone change if they aren’t willing to. You can’t make someone something they aren’t. If your partner isn’t dominant or can’t be as dominant that you want then it just isn’t going to happen. You have to be prepared to make some adjustments. You are going to have to work with him.